Ok, lets see. First....Braveheart he didnt leave me for HER. She came after the others. But he IS older. Thank You for your encouragement.
Second....JTB yes I suppose I am like your 1st Wife if she did those things. I went over a month without speaking to my xh. I did contact by text about the taxes but got no response. It just seems so stupid that we cant communicate when we have to. His anger for me is still there. I think some of it has to do with the ow not wanting him to talk to me. She is young, she doesnt understand and doesnt care. She doesnt contact her xh so she says. But they were only married 3 years I think. 20 years is alot. Jack, my xh has said the same thing. It's always what I want. I thought I was giving him time to miss me by not contacting him unless it was necessary. BUT Jack, he is getting married, so I think well theres no hope left so it doesnt matter. If I need to contact him for something important than I will try. Most of the time its just leaving him a voicemail. He doesnt take my calls. Your input on this please.
Third....Kimmie its an old debt.
Fourth....SoConfused, I didnt have my own L. All I did was sign the divorce paper. Yea, it was a mistake on my part. I believed everything he said.
Fifth....Kerry, yep I know I am. OW has called me pathetic.
Sixth....Ana I have give up that hope. My son and I are having a hard time with stuff like buying his shoes and summer clothes. I figured he was his father and he would help. It Hurts. Thank GOD my son is older and not younger.
I did call him again today and leave him a message to please talk to our son about getting a job and asked him to give son some money for clothes and such. Probably a mistake, but what else am I suppose to do, the man IS his father. Doesnt father's do this for their children. I know some divorced couples and they do NOT have this problem, why do I?
