I agree with the girls. Nothing changes if everything stays the same and nothing has changed in your situation EXCEPT your becoming aware that's it's not working and it won't work with Dan getting all the perks and you getting all the jerks.
Stop it and enforce that visitation schedule. Away from YOUR house. The circle talking needs to stop from Dan.... Is he in or out? If he says "I don't know", as I am sure he will... that means he's not in.... right?... so he's out.
I am not saying out forever or anything but I hope you understand what I am saying. Business like and polite because there is no other reason to be any other way.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too