I never thought of it that way, but I guess you're right. You know one of my prayers was always "Lord, either reconcile us or take away my love for her, because this hurts too much." Maybe the "looks/acts different" thing is one of the ways He does that?
Puppy
You and I will have to be teammates at the Myrtle Beach outing! I prayed for the exact same thing, for the exact same reason.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.