((Jeff)) No I did not help him find the plunger. He's got to learn to survive without me being the "keeper of stuff". lol

You're exactly right about focusing on me & the kids helps the time pass & be savored as well.

I took D14 to Phantom of the Opera last night. It was AMAZING !
The set, the music, the costumes, the love.........ah !!! It was something I'd wanted to do for years and years. Living life is such much better than just dreaming about living life.

Hugs

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.