As do I. That is "traditional wisdom", and the advice you will receive from people who have not actually looked deeply into the subject.
I'm proud of you man, I know how hard this must all be, and you are keeping it together for your kids.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
