SMW you can't reason with the unreasonable or try to understand the terminally confused (otherwise referred to as a f*cktard, or the leader of the one man dumbass parade...you choose). Whether his bed is comfortable or not, it is the one he has chosen for now, so let him lie in it.
You are a wonderful woman and a great mom. He will have to live with the consequences of his choices.
I'm so sorry that he is acting this way and I can only imagine how you feel, but I'm prayin' for you too.
((((Hugs)))) S&S
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option