I have been trying to work out my W's Love Language(s) - trying various things to see which get's a reaction.
Often we love on each other with our own LLs. How does your W show you and others love? Then try doing those things for her.
I've been working on that.
The only conclusion that I can draw there is that she is pretty balanced - much more so than I. She focuses much more on gifts (for everyone), she does a lot of "acts of service" for her friends, she really used to ask for quality time from me and needs it from her friends. Affirming words is the only one I don't really see.
Now that I have asked, I'll wait to see if she actually takes the test, and if so, what the answers are.
Last edited by Thinker; 04/28/0906:51 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.