Yes, I think I will move over. My infidelity problem is not resolved, but my sitch is moving towards some resolution (good I hope).
We went to the movies last night. 'Once upon a time in Mexico': great for anger management; they kill about 2 people every minute for no particular reason, but it is fun. With your advice in mind, I told H that I appreciated the effort he was making and he answered "it is no effort"
So it is starting to look like I was not stupid after all...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
