I have been trying to work out my W's Love Language(s) - trying various things to see which get's a reaction.
Often we love on each other with our own LLs. How does your W show you and others love? Then try doing those things for her.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
