Originally Posted By: kat727
I don't think he is thinking of them, just what he wants. He has now threatened me with mediation or court what ever it takes to get his way.

Any advice?? (Oh and posted in surviving to see if they had ideas too.)

kat
Yep, not thinking of them. Since you are, if you don't think it's a good idea, I think you should say, ok, have your L file the paperwork for court and/or mediation. I'm fine with that. Don't cave if you don't think it's good for the kids!!! Does he have the money to do lots of more legal stuff??? Might not be a problem if he can't $$$ it.

I think the same thing sometimes; how did I stay married for so long??? I think our H's prob. did get worse, and we prob. both overlooked too much also!!! Karen


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D18, S24