Thanks for stopping by my post and for your comments. I am very sorry about your sitch. You must be in the middle of a frightful rollercoaster ride. Hang on tight, it does get a bit more bearable.
I found that reading a lot helped (I could not sleep anyway ). I liked "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass, "The Monogamy Myth" by Peggy something, and DR and DB by Michelle Weiner-Davis (especially DR).
And there are some interesting web sites around. Check out www.marriagebuilders.com if you have not done so.
and if you want to look into the other side, check out www.gloryb.com I found it helped me to see things from the OW's perspective but it does not work for everyone.
Good luck and stop by whenever you want. We are here to help each other. You are not alone.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
). I liked "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass, "The Monogamy Myth" by Peggy something, and DR and DB by Michelle Weiner-Davis (especially DR).
