Don't we owe it to the child to see if it can work out, not saying it will but can we at least go to Marriage Counciling? This is the next time SHE brings something up about R. Stop the texting, let her do it first, and always end the conversation first. Tell you have to go to meet some friends, or you and D are going to the park. Busy, busy, busy. No woman likes a desperate, pursuing, pressuring, man. It is very unattractive. They like men that have it together, and you need to get it together if you truly want this thing to workout. So buck up, are you ready to work, or are we gonna lay around and cry about it while we watch this thing go in the toilet?