Gosh, I wish I could get to that point of me and H having a conversation 2il! I did get `thanks` for making him dinner last night. And I`m rating that as progress!
Thanks for your love dare tip and info.Tricky one. I don`t want him to think I`m pursuing him. But, on the other hand, I do get that turn the other cheek thing.
But, its been such a big change for me to be cool and unreactive and to be happy despite his moods.
And, more progress, he actually told me he`d be late home this evening AND where he would be.
I`m sticking with being unpredictable too though and trying new things. I`m off for a cycle now. Something I used to love but hadn`t done in a while.
I`m also taking a tip from Jack Three Beans and rowing back a bit on what I say to those people-two friends and two sibs-that I`ve confided in. It too hard on them to be caught up in all this drama and they need to hope that things are improving.I need to give my own head a break from it too. And leave space for that improvement to happen.
Oh, and I`m a very, very long way off from saying "I love you"!
Wishing you well, you really seem to have made a LOT of progress already!
