Hey, Baggy, been off awhile, vacation & other stuff so I'm just catching up. Backing up a couple weeks: She sleeps w/panties on?!?!?!?! Wow. Since the last kid moved out in '92 neither of us do. Even then, we could always keep a robe handy. That warm skin-to-skin spooning always feels so good even if it doesn't lead to ML.
There's a flip side to the P thing. I used to hide it from my H as much as I could since he wasn't hi-frequency & I didn't want to give him a reason not to ML for more days than necessary. What a contrast!
Back to you, LG, I might have asked before, but how well does your H sleep? A man's body makes the big T during sleep at night. Lots of snoring, possible apnea, less than 7 or 8 hours sleeping straight thru can cause a decline.
I also envy your O's during penetration. Any excess activity on my part tends to cause PE. It always was a problem w/ex H. Not much chance to "practice" that technique. Even tho he's read TNMS (at least he says he did) he still kinda thinks it should be easier to do that (and, unfortunately, quicker). He is learning, tho that if the big E wilts, its fun to get it back and enjoy ML longer. Now to get him into touching, teasing earlier in the day, giving clear signals since he still doesn't seem to get that it takes time to get turned on & total silence doesn't work for me.
L8R, guys, J
me: 66 H:60 2 adult sons 2 grandsons adult daughter deceased 5/05 me:Part time trainer H: plant suprv.