Thank you for your response. I think you misunderstood me. I know they had a PR on and off for years. They stopped in Easter but they obviously continue having an emotional one (or he would dump her).
As to the other question: no. I will not live or submit my dtr to living with a three way R.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"