As far as heartache is concerned, I've found it to be a quite a roller coaster. Just when I'm feeling good, I start to head back down again. However, each bad time is a little better than the last, and shorter in duration. Dealing with W's infidelity is something I wouldn't wish on anyone. One of the most painful emotional experiences of my life.
Still, try to keep your head up. Sometimes it helps me to realize how others have much more serious problems, like a very sick child, or facing the loss of their home due to job loss, etc.
It is quite a rollercoaster. I was getting better until I found out about her infidelity last week. And you're right, this is the most painful emotional experience of my life--I certainly hope it doesn't get worse.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
