Quote: I do not understand anything. He says he does not want a D. He says he loves me but cannot get rid of OW. He does little things to help me (calls sometimes from work, leaves cell phone open occassionally...) but not the NC that I need to start healing (or stop worsening the wound).
why can he not get rid of ow?
are you trying to believe that they had a r for 5 years...the first of wich she did not know about you...they've lived together...supposedly been engaged...and they've not been physcial?
what to do is ultimately up to you... can you live with this ow as a constant part of your life?