WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 8

[confusedinpa]

She wanted space. Give it to her.

I'm giving her space. I only contact her when I'm returning a call (usually wait at least 30 minutes) and I don't return all of them. I'm balancing between being a total jerk of blowing her off and polite/cordial.

I rarely talk about what's going on with me (trying to stay mysterious)

Not sure what else to do or how to handle it. I didn't get home till almost 8:30 PM last nite and called to say good nite to my kids. I don't want to not talk to them because of what I'm trying to do with her.

It's so hard to decide what is the right thing to do or how to handle it.

I know that the woman I married is gone. My wife has become a different person and I'm trying to decide what to do. Not with respect to whether or not I want to build a new marriage with her, but how to attract her back.

Every situation is different. I know it may be impossible. For me and for my kids, I need to try.