My H and I have been in separate bedrooms since March(his choice). At first I would still hug and kiss him. But after reading DR, I get the impression that I should take a stand off approach and not do that unless he were to initiate it. So now there's no hug or kiss. Sometimes a pat on the back like you would give a dog. I feel so much more distant. Am I doing the right thing?


Me 39
H 42
M 11, T 12
S 10,6
D 3
EA 2007
separated in same home since 3/10/09