Oldtimers: IS Mlcer good parent after crises?

[Sanderika]

Peace,

Please do not feel you have to defend your thoughts, feelings and wants.

I can completely understand and validate everything you are saying about your XH and your kids and I am right there with you.

Some of us can't bear the thought to have our babies in the company of our H's or XH's OW. We can't change. For me it brings me to a panic attack when I think about it.

I can't even imagine a place where this will make me feel comfortable.

I have had to put up with so much already with H just being with OW that I cannot add having to put up with OW spending any time with my son. This would destroy me once and for all....I won't allow it.

I feel this is one area where I do have control. I won't back down.

(((((hugs))))) to you, Peace...

Sanderika