thanks for the advice. i am not sold that he doesnt talk to her, but i know he has not seen her in a few weeks.

the fact that he even comes home i guess shows he is trying.

it is just so hard.

and i really cant keep my mouth shut anymore because he also had the tendency to get moody and have people walking on eggshells and im not interested in living that way again.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09