Well, it started really early this morning at 6:18 AM with contact from the wife.

"Sometime this week I would like to talk to u about the kids b day party...maybe lunch time or after the kids go to bed"

Prior to her moving, I had asked her to wait a week so we can have the kids B'day in the family home without it being overshadowed by her leaving. She had refused but I told her that I was planning on having one in May like we do every year. She had offered to help.

What do you all think? Should I just do it by myself and invite her? Or accept her help?

It still strikes me as odd that a WAW who needs time and space from me keeps finding reasons to contact me.....

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13