i am totally frustrated by h. i cannot deal with the moods, i have waited so long to have him home, and now i have to deal with the moods again?

i read in divorce remedy that this behavior is normal, but it is so hard to tolerate. i really take it personally and i really wonder if he is second guessing himself.

i hate that he feels he can come to bed for weeks and now choose the couch.

nothing happened. i didnt spark it. he just flips like a switch.

i really do not know how to deal with it, i dont want to mag and harp, but i am not interested in sitting quiet either.

maybe its about ow? i ask what is wrong, he says nothing.

what do i do?


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09