Renee, I'm not going to "let you have it" I will say that I thought you were a bit compulsive calling that many times. With that being said, if he doesn't want to talk to you, don't talk to him! Send a letter via your son telling XH that you will not use him as a messenger boy or mail it to him if you don't feel comfortable doing that. Renee, you MUST move on with your life!! You must start with baby steps, set small goals, then move to bigger ones. Renee, one other thing...... I haven't mentioned this before, but your H is a LOT OLDER than the OW. Well, I have something "encouraging" for you. The odds are very much against your H's "new marriage" working out. Under the best circumstances he would have about a 4 in 10 chance of it working, this being an affair based Relationship, him being much older than her I would say he has about a 2 in 100 chance of it being a lasting Relationship. I thought I would throw that in there for you.
