Thanks for your frankness JTB!But if someone is depressed often they`re the last ones to seek the help they need, it is from that point of view that I`d thought of going to see H`s doctor. No, I`m not trying to get him on my side and yes, H would be mad if he found out I`d done that.
But you`re so right about the Mom thing. I`m becoming his Mom again in looking after him. That`s one of the things that I`ve become aware of and have tried to change. And there I go making him dinner and thinking about calling his doctor.
Ok, point taken.Too late on the dinner front-that`s already been eaten(and i got `thanks` which is something...) but I won`t call his doc.
Thanks for keeping me hanging on here-for another while anyway!
A very slight thaw this morning. He told me he`d be late home AND where he`d be.
And I`m going to take you`re advice and even pull back a bit with my two friends and sibs who do know. It already is too hard on them.