DQ,

I would appreciate some advice on my sitch. Just to add to. When I busted him and the ex bestfriend other woman I said some things that really hurt him. I told him that he was worthless and didn't have anything in his life to be proud of. I also told him that the last 3 and a half years of my life were a waste. I tend to bite really hard when I am hurt. I've never been this way toward my husband and he has never seen this side of me before. It just really hurt to know that he has been having this EA with my ex bestfriend behind my back for so long and that I feel as if I was being played by both of them. She pretending to be my friend while stealing my husband and then continuing to do so when he left and both of them lying about all of this. Please advise if you can. I would appreciate it.


"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."