hi making_it with my situation i did a little NC, not much just a little, now my wife and i are back together now, after a few days of her being home she told me that when i didnt speak to her or text or show any interest she thought its that same old person again, i will never be as important as him, and it gave her negative thoughts,
not saying she wanted showering with gifs and love, she just needed to see i cared and she was important, now this worked for me and i cant say it will work for you, but i do know what my wife told me and if id of done the complete NC we wouldn't be together today, take care
