Hey everyone I just wanted to pop in and update. XH still doesnt want any contact with me. Nothing has changed, except he is in GOD's hands now. He is getting married Aug. 15 and is excited about it I suppose. He came into work with his new bride to be and told my manager all about it. She said he was proud of it. He told her he wanted a "family". He had one, so I dont understand that. She told him that she hoped he didnt regret what he was doing and he said he hoped he didnt either. He said he wanted both of us to be happy and he thought if the less he talked to me the easier it would be for me to go on. I received a bill in the mail for taxes. I wont go into detail about it but I sent him a text. First time in weeks that I have contacted him at all. I asked him if he could help pay this. I got no word from him, so I left him a voice mail. STILL no word, so I called again and his gf answered. I asked her if I could speak with xh and she said NO YOU MAY NOT. I told her I needed to speak about taxes and she said WE GOT YOUR MESSAGE. I asked her again, may I please speak with xh for a sec. She said NO HE DOES NOT WANT TO TALK TO YOU, then she yelled, xxxx do you want to talk to anybody and then said to me. "NO HE DONT, thank you goodbye", and hung up on me. I got upset and called back, xh answered the phone. I did not show that I was upset. He said he would have sent me a response through our son, that is how he wanted to communicate. Then he said, I am busy gotta go and hung up on me too. I am not communicating through our son. I am not putting him in the middle. I guess I will have to manage. xh is just not going to do his part. My manager said she could tell the new gf had alot of say in what he does. I suppose in talking to me. It's sad that we all can not get along. I truly am better. Just working and trying to take care of things. Soconfused, I dont know what I would do. I honestly dont. So guys go ahead I am use to it.
