Wow, those are some huge mixed signals. It totally seems like she doesn't know what she wants. And that her friend is pulling her in one direction.

So what did your DBcoach suggest? Just curious??

Hopefully, you had a good time visiting your family.

Don't beat yourself up too much thinking about your weekend.

Keep working on You!!

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)