Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

Exactly. Had fun with my girls tonight. With H gone, its a different vibe. I think if H returned there would be some adjusting for the girls. D13 would be OK, but D11 has the most anger towards her dad, and doesn't really want much to do with him.

Jeff, I read on our thread about you telling family about getting divorced. My H hasn't mentionned anything to his family about moving out, only that he depressed. I haven't spoken to his parents since they visited in December, because I don't want to be put in a position of needing to lie, or telling the story that is not really mine to tell. Any repercussions that you noticed in telling your family at this point in the process? Anything you would have done differently?