Almost used your initials to start this note, but it didn't look good. So I guess I'll call you future.
future,
It is the unsaid things that we thought the other knew that got us where we are in the first place. So, I would say, never assume that she knows what you think or feel. And secondly, I think waiting around and putting your life on hold is a mistake. That empowers her to keep doing what she is doing.....very little. You need to get a life, and be happy and busy doing it. If she decides that she wants to be part of that life, then you have a decision to make, whether to adjust your life to make room for her, or not. But as long as the door is wide open waiting for her to walk through it, what is her motivation?
