Lan, I think showing her you know or getting angry in front of her is giving away too much of your dignity. I know its hard not to explode, or get afraid and suck up, or DB, but maybe the way to tackle these sorts of things is with cool and calculated action. For example, gather your facts, print the evidence and file it away. Then without W's knowledge, quietly protect yourself financially and legally - take all your money and put it in a joint account with your mom or sister. Then take a hammer and cooly and calmly smash the computer and throw it in the trash. Or you can decide the computer is broken and needs fixing so take it totally apart and pull out every circuit board, screw and wire so it cannot be put back again. Do likewise with the cell phone - microwave the SIMcard for 30 seconds and put it back in her phone. Or download the picture of OMs 'not so little Little Man' as a screensaver. Be a Bad Ass MF Lan. Sorry, had to get that out of my system ;-)