Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

D13 texted her dad to see if he could transport her to a school function tomorrow, surprisingly he responded. So he is alive.

I just realized we have the couples communication class tomorrow. I wonder if he'll bail. I really half expect him to, but I will still be disappointed in him if he does. But I will try ot to show it, although maybe he needs to see a more realistic reflection of himself periodically? Any help to the MLCer to have brief reality checks? or are they pretty much useless and hurtful to the DBing?

Actually VH, I much prefer the truth to the ramblings of my mind, because usually, but not always, my imagination is worse. I can handle the truth. When H has told me truthful things about OW and the A I was always calm and collected. When I feel I'm being lied to(and I know it), I have a more difficult time being calm. Truth is always better for me, although often painful of late.