hey whats going on man, first off i just want to say sorry your here but nice to meet u anyway. I myself am not the person you want advice from, since i am still learning, but what i have learned so far is that when my W left i begged pleaded and cried, and all that did was empower her. So stop all that nonsense.....I know easy to say tough to do(especially condsidering i think i just cried the whole 7 hr car ride from ohio to chicago, but she dont know that). Secondly the only way that i got her to talk to me was to go DARK......totally DARK... again easier said than done. When i say DARK i mean no contact dont call or text no im's,no e-mails. This killed me hell the only way i made it is when i went fishing or out i gave my phone to a friend and just said dont give this back to me unless she calls. But she called me and we talked didnt really achieve my ultimate goal but we r talking and are on a friendly basis. Thirdly read DB also after you read DB the first time read it again. The last tidbit 2cent piece i can throw into the mix is as much as you want to tell her "I love you" or profess your love to her, dont i did this and i was trying to do a 180 I told the W that I understood that this is what she feels will make her happy and that I love her enough to let her go.....her reply to this was simply that if i loved her so much i would have done the dishes more often.
But like i said man just my 2 cents, im still learning and the people on this board are very supportive and will help you alot. I just wanted to throw something out to get some ideas flowing till some of the more experianced people have time to join in.
