Newcomer Looking for Feedback

[PortlandDad]

Welcome somuch. I'm glad you found the website, even though I lament the reason that you are here. You will get a lot of good advice and support if you hang out here long enough. You might want to mosey over to a few folks threads here and read up on their sitchs and pick out some good ideas that may be working for them. While you are there, feel free to toss a few comments or words of encouragement wherever you feel it appropriate. The more folks get to know you, the more likely they are to follow back and post on your thread.

which brings up another good idea: edit your signature and put a link back to your main story thread so people can follow your posting back whenever you post on other threads, too. Any additional information that you think will help people get to know you and your sitch is also a good candidate to put in your signature block. Also, feel free to just journal from time to time in your thread about the goings on in your sitch. It will serve to bump your thread and keep it in peoples eyes. There is a lot of activity here on the newcomers forum and threads tend to get old quickly.

Ok, so about your sitch. Tell us a little bit more about it. You have been M a pretty short amount out time! Are there any kids involved? What was the trigger event that led to the bomb? Is there a possibility of an OM in the picture? Since this is your Ws 2nd M, what is her marital background like? Have you considered the possibility that this is a MLC?

Post back with some more information and hopefully you can get some help and advice rolling your way!