new job has a huge learning curve but things got much better today! Started a conversation with someone else who went through the same thing and he is going to sit with me tomorrow and show me the databases that I need....COOL BEANS!!!!!
wifes life is in meltdown.... problem after problem... lost power, had a bunch of people coming over for a meeting, had hundreds of dollars of food in fridge, called to ask for help...don't love you but need your help LOL! Next day the vehicle is messing up and she gets ripped off by the repair shop for a tune up that didn't solve the problem since it turns out to be the transmission. So I am involed now and have it going to another guy. There are other things too.... My buddy calls it KARMA LOL!
yeah, I know guys... let her be on her own. I think I have kind of given up and just feel that need to help out. I do get mad at my self after I say okay, but it is hard to just say no. Feel like I am being a jerk. Need to just stop answering the phone maybe. I am thinking here she doesn't have anyone to help her but in next life she will so I can distance myself there. Foolish probablly... feel like an addict that can't "just say no".... Believe me it has me worried about myself??????? I seriously need to get therapy ha ha! But I like the KARMA thing that is going on
Decided the other day that her cheating with a lawyer (and I assume a well off one based on the 20 conversations about families who make over 150K being lower middle to lower class). It's a win win for me.....
1. if they stay together for the duration then my daughter is almost guaranteed to go to college (money is covered)
2. If they don't then
A. he dumped her and I am good since she gets a dose of her own medicine
B. or she dumps him and I am good with that because this guys is a piece of crap. (unless my wife walked off the plane without her rings on and never said she had a daughter. Any real human would have said no way am I involved here if i am going to screw up a kids life) Selfish scum bag, least that's my take.
