You will find a lot of books and Internet sites that have much information on improving marriage relationships, but few are as good...if any....as Divorce Busting. B/c DB is not just how to make a marriage "better".....it is how to bust a pending divorce! I have not read that much of the site you mentioned but I have an idea about it. I would suggest that you stick with the techniques of DB. I was an AWAW and when my H would tell me he loved me, I felt anything but loving feelings toward him and if fact, I would say the word "despise" comes to mind. So, does that give you a better picture of how a WAW wants to hear it?
I would strongly.....very strongly tell you to not smother her with words of love and affection of she is wanting to leave you. If she has another person on her mind......you are the farthest thing she wants near her.
Harsh words to hear, but it is the truth and if you want to know what to do that is the right technique instead of pushing her farther away.....you better stick with DBing.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
