Learning to Detach

[peacetoday]

K
You will notice this sort of behavior time and time again from the mler
they are irresponsible and more so as time goes on
It got to the point where we me and the kids do not expect anything form XH
He may or may not show
he may or may not call
I am sad for my kids
THis is a place of pain only a child knows when a father abandons them partially or fully
I detach
from my XH
from his immaturity
from the pain he causes us from the kids pain
the kids find wys to forget Dad
they are happy to see him when he comes, but they dont trust him or expect much after time
there is nothing we can do
I have sugar coated and made excuses for him
they know he is Not there
sorry for your confusion
peace