Your W didnt like it that you got an attny. Well, tough. You have every right to be protected and find out how to protect your children. A few days of space might help and if your W has an atty it would seem to me they would urge her to not start off swinging and see what sort of agreement can be reached before things get ugly.
When a WAS feels cornered the word divorce flies around. If she files then she files but dont feel bad about protecting yourself. Its necessary and your right as a citizen of this country. Honestly, at this point its probably best if you only see her in court! Anything else, right now, would spell disaster w/her being so angry.
I think my W filed for full custody without even speaking to an attorney. I got one simply because when i got served i consulted with an atty, about the family court procedure. My W never did and from conversations that I had with her she was under the impression that the two of us would be able to sit down without lawyers in the judges office and set up custody and visitation. My atty informed me that it does not work like that way, that attys would be with you for that. Maybe I could have been more forth coming with her and not blindsided her with having an atty present, but i think if she knew I had one then she wouldn't say a word to me.
Thanks CityGirl, I am defiantly going to try not to have any communication with her, and maybe find another way to see our son, maybe a relative can get him for me. If she lets me, I have advised my atty about the situation, and it was last left off that I asked my W for her atty name, so that my atty could contact hers in regards to her keeping our son from me. No word back as of yet, which means my atty may be sending a registered letter very soon.
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story
