I appreciate your posts

MY L said XH needed to have a 3 bedroom so each child( boy and Girl) can have a sepaerate room

I wasnt trying to be vindictive or punish X--I felt situation might not be Safe

I set no restrictions on visitation..he can come and see or take them daily and bring them home
without OW
OW cant meet them for 8 more months per D agreement
XH and I will go to coparenting sessions per D agreement

I just didnt want OW with my kids
It felt like a violation of everything I believe in

and It felt like an unsafe place and I wasnt going to let some women who alept with my XH while we were M meet my kids wiothout a fight
MY XH chose this not me
I wanted to prtect my kids
MY XH is also on anti anxiety meds and lies constantly
I dont trust him either with kids
He is a recovering alcloholic who may be using again I dont know
I do not regret that part and fighting about kids
I regret that XH is so immature that he cant put the kids first and visit regualry here where they are safe

Im not sure if OW is drug addict-My S7 has life threatening allergies and asthma at times
he needs to be carefully fed..gluten free diet
she had DUI a few years ago
she is 28
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow