I make him knock as it is now. He does not have free entrance into the current house.
I also cannot afford to purchase anything else. This area I am stuck living in is so damn unaffordable.
I am trying not to be bitter, but it really p!sses me off that ex got to walk out on his family and have an affair yet he is the one who was able to purchase a new home, in a really nice area, on 1.2 acres of land. Meanwhile, I am the one with the kids and am being forced to sell to move to God know's where, to rent out some place for more money than I am currently paying to stay in a home I own.
It just really gets me mad. Where is the fairness in all of this? Why am I always the one getting punished while he gets away scott free? He gets to have it all (except for the children full time, thank God!) while I and the boys have to suffer.
I don't think I am meant to be happy in this life time.
Miss H, I understand how you feel, its never fair. In fact, life isn't fair. I have heard many on here talk about "what comes around goes around" but I have never seen it in my life. I'm sorry that I am not more comforting to you, but unfortunately, that is the way it is. In almost every situation I have read on this board, the LBS takes the worst of it. Miss H, what you have to do is work on rebuilding your life. It won't be easy and it does take time.
