Well it seems like any progress that I had made towards saving the marriage is out the door. Two steps forward and ten steps back. She came to the house this afternoon to pic up some clothes - with a police escort to avoid any problems. The W won't even talk to me now, and won't even allow me to see our child. Hopefully that will change in a few days after she has some time to calm down. Its beginning to look like she is going to make this a bitter nasty fight.
I am sure it was upsetting to have a police officer escort her but the main thing is there was no further conflict, she got her things, nobody got hurt and everybody was safe. While those positives might seem slim, they are positives. You avoided further conflict with her and seeing that she is already upset that is a good thing.
Your W didnt like it that you got an attny. Well, tough. You have every right to be protected and find out how to protect your children. A few days of space might help and if your W has an atty it would seem to me they would urge her to not start off swinging and see what sort of agreement can be reached before things get ugly.
When a WAS feels cornered the word divorce flies around. If she files then she files but dont feel bad about protecting yourself. Its necessary and your right as a citizen of this country. Honestly, at this point its probably best if you only see her in court! Anything else, right now, would spell disaster w/her being so angry.
