Stick to the legal route. Your H has done nothing but drive over you emotionally and discredited you as a W and a mother. Now that you're showing some backbone, he's scared.
If he was that concerned about how things were turning out, he should have gone to counseling with you and stopped going out with the OW.
Another fear is that if you do things on your own, I fear he will take advantage of you further and give everything you own to the OW. Protect yourself dear.
Hang in there. My prayers go stronger for you every day.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
