The children, not the OW need to be the emphasis.

By making such harsh rules you are making it almost impossible for your Husband to be a good Father.

You have put him in a bad predicament, and in doing so, only your children are suffering.

How many hoops do you want the Man to jump through to see his children?

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.