the best hope of reconciliation is friendship and goodwill? Yet how do we get in that space, when he is in a relationship with OW. Am i being presented with a chance to show unconditional love or am I just being sucked into grievous hurt by a man that is indifferent.
I don't think friendship and goodwill are possible or even beneficial when he is in a R with an OW. You can be friendly as you are to acquaintances (someone here once mentioned treat him like the mailman, friendly but...). Read all the stuff on LRT and going dark. Work on 180s. GAL. Karen
