It is so difficult being in his home, and realizing it has NOTHING of you in it. No memories...except of people not you.
It is speculation. Simple. but he said...yes in the past...its still speculation...would I bet against you? No.
Be honest with him...cripe!
All this fails, talk to BND. Be honest, tell him why tell him what and tell him how, tell him that you trying your best, but there are going to be things that will rip your guts outs if you see them, things that you are going to jump to conclusions about in this home of his.
You job after telling him this, is to try level out your emotions, and be calm when talking to him about a postcard. His job if he wants you around is to try to make this house more CNMC Friendly.
You, despite your best specualtions are not a mind reader...and he sure as sure isn't either. And thank God we are not.
"Do these jeans make me look fat?"
"REALLY?"
Thank God we cannot read minds.
Honesty is the ONLY path if you are looking to piercing it is the only way and REALISTIC expectations with open communication, gone are the days of silent brooding and harboring hurt feelings...you cannot afford that crap.
He knows who you are...
Are you sure? Or is that an assumption? One that will kill a relationship?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
