I've been in a bit of a rut, done nothing constructive and gained five pounds, so I've decided to stop being non-productive and get back to where I should be - eating right and exercising.
I know that my financial situation is what I've been allowing to bring me down, but I can't change it in the short run, so I need to buck back up before I get in a hole I'll never get out of again. Yikes! That would be scary!
Anyway, I missed my D this weekend, but she was having a blast w/XW and XW's mom in Disneyland. I wish I was there w/her to share in her enjoyment, but we'll have our time in the Magic Kingdom soon enough.
As for XW, she's nice to me as long as she's single. That will end soon as I'll be discussing the pension stuff again. She's poured in over 40K just on her own to her state-sponsored retirement during our M, so I've got to make sure it gets divied up fairly. There are other components to her retirement as well, so I need to be firm w/the handling of this final phase of our D.
It is all about business, but I'm willing to negotiate so I don't kill all of her Roth IRA holdings. However, if she won't listen and chooses to get nasty, then I may have no choice but to put this thing back in front of a judge, which is the LAST thing I want to do. I'm hoping she'll feel the same.
So, I'm back at school, but still behind in my work. Oh, well. That is what finals week is for - catching up - right?
I'm hitting the gym today for the first time in a week, so I'm looking forward to that.