I suppose I am deciding to use this time when H is not contacting me to 1. work on me like everyone keeps telling me! 2. to decide how to implement the changes I having been working on and 3. how to respond when H does finally contact. And I know he will eventually. I just don't know when. So I guess I need to stop asking myself when? and just stick to addressing 1-3 plus all the other self improvements that come up along the way.

And yes I hear ya GTFM, I keep telling myself and many others everyday that we can't change the actions of anyone else but we can change our own and how we react to others actions too. you are so very right.

Last edited by hopeful_cb; 04/27/09 09:20 PM.

Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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