Originally Posted By: Thinker
...and now the backlash.

Today my W is quiet and distant - and crying a bit. Claims something in the air is bothering her...

I tried to liven and lighten things up a bit, but got only a "stop it!" so I left, still smiling.

Now hiding in my office...pretending to work.


And now that I am tucked away in my office with the door closed, and the AC on drowning out any noise, she comes in just to tell me funny that S1 did.

Up - Down - Up

Anyway, I am also wondering if I should move my thread to Piecing. I've been here 4 months now (still a newcomer?) and things seem to have stabilized (W no longer talking about D, OM gone (?)), and sometimes things even seem to be improving...

I know it is really a moot semantic point, but how do you know when you are in "piecing" anyway?

Last edited by Thinker; 04/27/09 08:58 PM.
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