I know it must be one of the very hardest things in this world to do, but if a wife can be witty, mysterious, interesting, charming, flirty, (and of course look like a sex godess), and acts as if she doesn't give a twit what her H does or doesn't do....says or doesn't say......he will practically fall at her feet! It is funny, but when the wife can act as if she is happy-go-lucky with her life and adds a little mystery there (almost as if she has a "secret" on the side), it makes her suddenly so much more interesting to her H. Don't misunderstand me about the "secret" b/c I'm not suggesting you imply you are having an affair yourself! But, it is kind of like when you act as if you have been up to something......it gets people interested in what's going on in your life. In other words, it gets their attention off the OP and onto you! Some women say, "but I feel like a fake", well so what? If it works......it's worth it! I think the majority of us would feel almost like a fake to do anything "different" b/c we get into such a rut.
Many years ago I read something and I'll share it with you. A man can almost stand anything except boredom. Then it went on to say, "Make sure your H never finds it boring at his own address!" What an assignment! But, do you know, that I actually did that for a long time and had a ton of fun in doing it. My H never had a lot of imagination.....or at least he never put it into action...lol. However, he sure enjoyed "my works of imagination". Since the sex is good at this time, you could really put that imagination to use. (If you need any ideas....let me know...lol.)
Talk to you later. Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
